Faith-Suffering-Good Friday


The Cross as a Blessing

(Isaiah 52:13-53:12; Ps 31; Heb 4:14-16; 5:7-9; Jn 18:1-19:42)


At Christmas, we are moved and touched by the crib scene. On Good Friday, we must let ourselves be moved and touched by the cross scene. The wood of the crib has become the wood of the cross.

The late veteran Oblate missionary to the Dené, Fr. Mathieu, would often say, “The Cross is a blessing.” St. Ignatius of Antioch would agree with him with this statement, “My spirit is given over to the humble service of the cross which is a stumbling block to unbelievers but to us salvation and eternal life.”

In the Divine Office, or the Liturgy of the Hours, there is an antiphon that goes like this: “Take hold of the wood of the cross and plunge into the river of life.” That is the invitation extended to us this Good Friday celebration, to boldly cling to the cross and let its grace lead us to the fullness of life.

What makes the cross a blessing, and makes these statements possible, is the cross reveals, above all else, God’s unconditional, unfathomable love for us, for all of humanity, for all of creation, and challenges us to love God, others and ourselves in a like manner.

Fr. Richard Rohr, leaning on the Franciscan theologian Duns Scotus, writes that instead of humanity shedding sacrificial blood to try to reach God, “On the cross, God was ‘spilling blood’ to reach out to us! This is a sea change in consciousness. The cross, instead of being a transaction, was seen as a dramatic demonstration of God’s outpouring love, meant to utterly shock the heart and turn it back toward trust and love of the Creator.”

The vertical arm represents the love of God for us. Jesus, the Son of God, the obedient, suffering servant, hanging on the cross, demonstrates selfless love in action. On the cross, Jesus takes in all the negative dark energy of the world and instead of responding in kind, simply transforms it into pure love as forgiveness, which then becomes for us the source of eternal salvation.

Our invitation is to believe, to put our faith in this Jesus, to approach the throne of grace with boldness, and receive this same forgiveness. It is this love that transformed St. Eugene de Mazenod, the founder of the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate as he gazed upon the feet of Jesus on the cross one Good Friday over one hundred and fifty years ago. It is that experience of the love, compassion and forgiveness of Jesus that empowered him to go out and found a worldwide congregation of missionaries dedicated to the Mother of this God, Jesus, hanging on the cross.

The horizontal arm of the cross, in turn, represents our love for others. This arm invites us to love one another as Jesus has loved us, to especially move towards forgiving all those who have hurt us in any way.

This arm represents the core of the Gospel and the teachings of Jesus: Love God with your whole being; love one another as I have loved you; do to others what you would have them do to you; love your neighbour as you love yourself; love your enemies. That is the Gospel in a nutshell.

There are vertical two arms reaching out. One can represent the dimension of loving relationships, while the other can represent the dimension of caring and service. Both are ways that we can love one another. We can express that love through loving relationships of trust and intimacy, as well as dedicated service and works of mercy and caring.

The third part of the cross is the place where the two arms meet and form a cross. That juncture can represent the call to love ourselves. Sometimes that is where we fail the most. To love one’s self is also a part of the Great Commandment that Jesus gave to us. To forgive ourselves of the mistakes that we have made in life, to accept ourselves as we are, to be able to accept compliments, to be able to say “Thank you” when others affirm us, is all part of loving ourselves.

I deepened my understanding of the cross as a blessing when our mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. The terrible reality of that disease came home to me when I realized that she no longer recognized me or knew who I was. One day she introduced me to someone else in the nursing home as her brother. Eventually she lost all ability except to eat and sleep. I would then visit her at meal times and feed her, as that was the only way she would interact with me.

As time went by, I realized that I was becoming more patient; more understanding and more compassionate with others, as the result of feeding my mother, who was always, true to her nature, trying to give her food away to others even as I was trying to feed her. That experience humbled me and challenged me to grow in love. The end result was that I could now see more clearly the mystery of the cross as a blessing, lived out in my own life.

That is our challenge today, not just to venerate the cross, but to let its lessons penetrate our very being so that we too will see the cross as a blessing.

So, today, this Good Friday let us boldly grasp the wood of the cross, see it as a grace-filled blessing and plunge into the river of life.

Updated: April 10, 2020 — 3:21 pm


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  1. This is one of the heartfelt and meaning ful moment when we see and feel pain while Jesus is crucified on the cross . He dies on the cross for us by bearing our sins and faults . He is making realize what is suffering , loving , forgiveness, mercy and compassionate. What is the truth in this reality and what is going on this earth. Our actions and ways are condemning him to death when ever we sinned. He wants to teach us this new Commandment that he created in the New Testament. We should love one another as we love ourselves . We should love our enemies and love God with our whole heart. Most of the time this is a challenge because many of us have a hard time forgiving people who have hurt us often. We keep on forgiving and forgiving they still hurting us. We do not want to face the truth and deal with it. Jesus who forgives and loves us many times no matter how many times we have sinned. Amen. Thanks be to God.

    1. I guess most of us are suffering from this Covid-19 and Pandemic Crisis. We keep on praying and begging the Heavenly Father to stop this viruses from spreading and find a cure for this virus . Many of us are stay at home, loss jobs, no schools and closing churches, mosques and synagogues , etc. We are at financial crisis and we do not know when this will end. Hopefully, the Passion of Christ will send messages to God ; telling him what the world is happening right now. You must do something. I am experiencing Jesus’ pain and sorrow. Hopefully, it is a blessing. there will be improvements. It is a amazing reflection and thanks for sharing your story. Bishop Sylvain Lavoie . ❤️❤️💞🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😍😍😇😇🌹🌹🕊🕊

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