Optional Memorial of St. Rose of Lima<\/em><\/p>\n (Ruth 1:1-22; Ps 146; Mt 22:34-40)<\/p>\n ********************************************<\/p>\n Keep it simple, sweetheart! We are probably more accustomed to a less flattering version of that saying, but I prefer this more positive rendering.<\/p>\n It also applies to the teaching of Jesus when asked which was the greatest commandment. Jesus caught the Pharisees by surprise – instead of answering with a lengthy dissertation on the Law and a complicated explanation in which they were hoping to trap him, Jesus kept it simple. He didn\u2019t focus on the negative \u201cdon\u2019ts\u201d of the commandments. Instead, Jesus went to the heart of the law: love!<\/p>\n I had an experience of this teaching when I joined the international singing group Up With People<\/em>as a university student. When I arrived in Santa Fe where the group was staging for the next tour, I was told I had to keep three rules: no smoking, no drinking and no dating. I had to smile to myself as I observed some of the other youth struggling with these rules, because I didn\u2019t need them! I didn’t smoke, had already decided that I wouldn\u2019t drink while with the group, and because I was thinking of becoming a priest, had no intention of dating. I had already gone beyond the law out of love for God, others and myself.<\/p>\n Actually, in his teaching, Jesus summarized the whole bible (all the law and the prophets) in two simple sentences: We are to love God with our whole being, and our neighbor as ourselves. That is all God is asking of the Sadducees, Pharisees and us \u2013 it can\u2019t be simpler than that.<\/p>\n The first commandment \u2013 to love God with our whole heart, soul and mind, is actually the great Shema of Judaism \u2013 what they were instructed by Moses to teach their children, wear on their arms, place on their foreheads, and inscribe on the door frame of their houses, so certainly the Pharisees were familiar with this. Actually, I saw a rabbi at the Western Wall in Jerusalem placing an amulet on the forehead of a tourist as he took off his baseball cap, and a man wrapping a leather tong around his arm as he prayed at the airport, so they take this teaching literally.<\/p>\n What they did not know was what Jesus did next \u2013 take an obscure law from Leviticus 19:18 \u2013 love your neighbor as yourself \u2013 and place it on an equal par to the Great Schema (\u201cand a second is like it\u201d). Now, to love one\u2019s neighbor as we love ourselves is just as important as loving God. In fact, perhaps the best way we can love God is not through worship as such, but by loving our neighbor as we love ourselves. That is a totally new teaching that would certainly take the Pharisees by surprise.<\/p>\n In his teachings, Jesus added some levels to these two core commandments, fleshing them out a bit more. We are to love our neighbor \u201cas he has loved us.\u201d That raised the bar even higher \u2013 not just to love, but to love the way Jesus loved \u2013 totally and unconditionally. On top of that, we are to love others by loving our enemies, just as Jesus loved those who were crucifying him. Jesus was forgiving them, even as he hung on the cross they had put him on. The teaching is simple and clear \u2013 we must love our enemies by forgiving them from the heart.<\/p>\n In Matthew 18:15, Jesus gives us a very simple way to do just that \u2013 forgive those who have hurt us. We can go to those who have hurt us and instead of reacting in kind (fight, flee or freeze), simply communicate with love, that is, share our feelings with them with no thought of revenge, punishment or getting even. We can add that we are trying to forgive them, thank them for listening, and then let go of the outcome.<\/p>\n Perhaps the hardest aspect of this simple teaching of Jesus is to love ourselves. That seems to be a struggle for so many people.\u00a0 We are so hard on ourselves, beat ourselves up, even abuse ourselves verbally and physically because we can\u2019t seem to forgive ourselves. I did my share of that, and was told by a friend my refusal to forgive myself was worse than anything else I had done! That got through to me and nudged me to greater self-forgiveness. One young lady who had an abortion started isolating, stopped eating properly and confessed her sin repeatedly for years, unable to believe God could forgive her and unable to forgive herself. It took a lot of processing her feelings, spiritual direction and reconciliation to move her to finally forgive herself and find a way to make amends.<\/p>\n Ruth, in the first reading today, is an outstanding example of the kind of love Jesus is teaching us \u2013 a love going beyond the law to the heart of the law which is compassion infused with mercy. Going back to her own people like Orpah would have been very understandable, but she knew a widow without sons in that society was very vulnerable and destined for destitution. She had compassion and empathy on Naomi and chose to remain loyal to her. That is truly loving a neighbor!<\/p>\n Our challenge is to do the same \u2013 not just try to keep laws that in many ways limit the scope of love, but to truly care for others by reaching out and going the extra mile \u2013 helping others be reconciled, changing the topic when gossip starts to happen, looking for ways that we can make the world a better place.<\/p>\n The Eucharist is a personal and communal encounter with the One who had a loving, intimate relationship with the Father, and out of that loving relationship, loved us and the whole world with a total selfless love.<\/p>\n May our celebration today empower us to go beyond laws, rules and regulations, to love God with our whole being, and to love others as we finally have learned to love ourselves.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" HOMILY WEEKDAY 20 05 \u2013 Year I Going Beyond the Law: Optional Memorial of St. Rose of Lima (Ruth 1:1-22; Ps 146; Mt 22:34-40) ******************************************** Keep it simple, sweetheart! 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The church today offers us an example of someone who lived this gospel fully \u2013 St. Rose of Lima. Rose was born in Peru in 1586 and died on August 15, 1617. While still a young girl, she embraced a selfless life of prayer, devotion and penance which she practiced to an extreme, subjecting her body to austerities as well as deprivation of food and sleep. Rose was confirmed in 1597 by the Archbishop of Lima, Toribio de Mogrovejo, who was also to be declared a saint. She refused to marry and became a Dominican tertiary at the age of 20. Rose lived in a small hut in her parents\u2019 garden, working to help support them, and also cared for the sick, the poor, the Indigenous and slaves. Her asceticism and her intense spiritual experiences (periods of darkness and desolation as well as mystical experiences) aroused some criticism from her family and friends and the suspicion of Church authorities. Nevertheless, in 1671, she became the first person in the Americas to be canonized and is patron saint of South America.<\/p>\n